She asked me out. I thought there'd be no harm in taking, But soon her eyes Would cut me like a piece of broken glass. And deep inside I felt myself disintegrating. I then found out What it's like to pay for someone's past. So, tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me? So, tell me who's to blame Is it you or is it me? We made love. At first it seemed like God was coaching. As time went on It became a way to keep me in my place. No more respect, No more passion, no more lover's doubting. Two people cursed, So pissed and sad, it's written on their faces. So, tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me? So, tell me who's to blame, Is it you or is it me? So, tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me? So, tell me who's to blame, Is it you or is it me? I don't want to feel this way But I can't stop fakin', I can't stop feeling. I wish that things were right. I wanted to be with you But I would never be enough, And you would never, ever let me be! Yeah! So, tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me? So, tell me who's to blame, Is it you or is it me? So, tell me who's to blame For the pain you're giving me? So, tell me who's to blame, Was it you? Was it you? So tell me who's to blame? Was it you or was it me?