Did I ever tell you 'bout the person that ruined me? Here's the problem, the reason you feel like you're not gettin' through to me Before I learned to fuck, yeah, I learned about sex with her Never cheated, was faithful and honest, I wasted my best with her I gave her all of me, I gave her loyalty She was close to everybody that was close to me Said, she'd rather take her life than disappoint me I guess she'd dead to me She gave me five long years Twenty-one lies And a pussy that just follow both her wanderin' eyes Since then I've made a point of tellin' myself "If she can do it so can someone else" Guess the things that I've seen They make it hard to love Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh They make it hard to love And now a nigga like me Maybe I'm hard to love Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh Maybe I'm hard to love Feels like every one I loved just did me dirty It done started with my mom then every girl after that just made it worse My mother was my partner 'Til she married a man she barely knew and let him treat me how he wants to I've been into issues, intimacy issues You wonder why I can't admit when I miss you I know it ain't easy lovin' me But I don't want you givin' up on me Forgive me for the things that I've seen They make it hard to love Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh They make it hard to love And now a nigga like me Maybe I'm hard to love Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh Maybe I'm hard to love Just thinking 'bout it. Makes me feel weak They say, "Men ain't allowed to cry"